Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Elderly man and young woman


A relationship between an elderly man and a young woman can be a very rewarding thing for both of them.  Yes, it may include a lot of sex, but should not exclusively rely on sex.  The intellectual experience of a man who has lived through many difficult situations in a long life and has thought much about whatsoever had importance during it, can be as good for her as the feeling of her healthy young body for him. A prerequisite might be that the man still has physical and mental  force which now happens more often than in former times.
The legal requirements must be observed, usually meaning the woman is not younger than 18 years. But most societies nevertheless condemn such a couple. Thereby the only real problems are created. The actual deep gap between the generations enforces this behavior. The prohibition originates from the times when there still existed a big hazard for the woman to get pregnant what nowadays can be avoided with­out difficulties. Thus the situation has changed profoundly. In our times it is more recom­men­dable for her to wait without getting children in order to have time for the much pro­longed period of studying and finding a decent professional position equivalent to men. This may very well be eased by the intellectual and intimate help of the man.
Of course, there are also quite a number of really dirty men who just by their financial power buy the sexual pleasures. It seems such behavior is more prevalent between businessmen than between persons mainly having cultural interests. Young woman should learn to screen men according to such criteria and to select those who will give them as much as they selves are giving them. But this also has not to be kind of a business. It means learning what love indeed may be, and an exper­ienced and, in addition, honest man is likely to know this better than she already does. The most difficult and important subject to learn is to find out who is cheating, and at the same time not to fall into the trap of cheating oneself.